Wednesday, 25 November 2015

Desecrating the Deity.

        Violence!  Bloodshed ! Massacre ! Hatred and callousness being inflicted upon innocent people across the world.  And all these insane acts being done in the name of religion.                                                   What a fallacy of ideas to profess  cruelty and god in the same breath!  Can this play of  ill will   please God who, by all believers over the world, is regarded as the ultimate source of love and  kindness ?.                          Is it not blasphemous to link His name with such devilish acts and blemish His holy image ?                              Besides sinful sacrilege, these votaries of violence, also indulge in killing the very essence of human values and ethos of the age they live in. Sadist to to the core, they love wrecking havoc on the civilised        world every now and then.      The situation is grave indeed and seems to be going out of control at the hour.  Isn't  there a way out?   Is our age old civilisation doomed to be annihilated?  A dreadful nightmare  to imagine !   Despite the grim situation  prevailing around,I wish to hope (against hope ) that maybe , all is not yet lost.                      The optimist in me  keeps dreaming that sooner or later a day will dawn with the light of reason and good sense that will dispel the darkness of delusion and  bring them back on the path of righteousness .The world will again become a better place for everyone to live in peace , sans  fear .
         In the meantime  ,let us hope so and pray together  !

Friday, 6 November 2015

GIVING A DAUGHTER AWAY

       A queer experience  it is  , a feeling that defies description ,an emotion beyond expression .
        Thoughts of varied  colours blended together in a peculiar mode ,overwhelming you  with a mood never known before .
                                You don't  know what to name it !
     Is it a sense of  self  satisfaction at having performed a parental duty gracefully in accordance with  the           established customs ?
          A  sense of relief that your beloved daughter  is going to enter a new phase of life  that holds the promises of a rosy future  with fulfilment of all her happy dreams?
        Or is it a late realization that you entrusted the future of your loving daughter to the mercy of a stranger ?
            Regret that you consented to give her away rather early  , while it could be done a little later ?
         Apprehensions  ,will or won't she be granted the same love and care she has been brought up with  ,and  if she  will be ensured protection as was done right from birth upto her  present age  ?
  Or is it the fear of impending loneliness back at home caused by the glaring
   absence of a darling child  ?
The chain of unsavoury thoughts keeps confusing the mind ,making it difficult  to
know  which of them is the hardest to cope with .
             But then ,as it always happens ,Prudence gets the better of  emotions  and rhyme and reason begin to prevail  ,asserting the truth that we are  merely a link in the  ages old tradition and are bound to act as our predecessors have been doing since time immemorial .
          Hence  ,no matter how painful the parting , how deep the sense of loss ,how dreadful the worries about her future ,the fact remains that she is born a daughter ,an asset that belongs to others and therefore must be parted with , a loving farewell
is all  we can give her with gifts of blessings and good wishes in abundance for her happy going in the new household. Tears may be welling up in the eyes but must not roll down till she is believed to have entered there to a cordial welcome ,marking  the beginning of celebrations henceforth , extending  to  the whole of her  lifetime !